Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Christmas spirit

Hello my beautiful one,

How are you today? What do you wanna do for Christmas? And what do you wanna change in the New Year which is around the corner?
I hope a few of you will respond at these questions and also as soon as possible (hopefuly until my finals start) I will make a special post with my answers at them.
What I wanna talk about you today? Well, as Christmas is in a week from now on I think it`s time to have a little bit of a different spirit. Don`t you think? For the last two Christmases were a little bit blurry cause my mood was so down and I couldn`t feel happy for anything. Yeah, maybe for some of you this is seem a little bit unexpected because now I am a happy person but not all the times were like this. 
But enough about sad stories. Let`s see how amazing Christmas can be. First of all, I love listening carols. They are wonderful and also make me more happy. I should listen them all year, but if I do so, I`ll not have time for other songs too. But what makes Christmas so special is the fact that we celebrate the love coming in our life throw God`s son. I mean, this is the only reason we have Christmas at all, because He was born.
As I am always saying, Jesus is God way to show us how much He loves us. So, dear, in these Christmas days keep this in mind. You have a whole month full of the best proof ever that you are loved, the Christmas celebration. 
I hope this will make you more happy and more pleased with who are you. Because you are beautiful and this season you should have more faith in you and enjoy all the blessing you have. I know that this post may sound so religious and some of you won`t like it, but His love is a part of who I am and I wanna spread His love as best as I can. Because in the end this is what matters: the love.

With all my love, Allee

Sunday, December 15, 2013


Hello my beautiful one,

How are you today? I know that I said that I will try to post every day but sometimes I feel like I am writing only things without any purpose and in the end I decide to keep them only for me.
Let` s start with a question. Did someone tell you today how beautiful you are? If not keep reading cause you will find out soon enough a lot of cute things about yourself which will make you feel as beautiful as you are.

1. You are beautiful because you are made by the most beautiful one whom is God. And He is always making beautiful things so you are a precious creation with a precious reason to be in this world. 
2. You are beautiful because you know how to love and how to be loved. As I see things, love is one of the most beautiful feelings ever and everyone who is capable of love is beautiful. And everyone is capable of love.
3. You are beautiful because you know to appreciate beauty, and if you can see beauty definetely you are one and I think you should check that mirror and see that what I am tellling you is true, but most important check your heart and you`ll see how much she agrees with me.
4. You are beautiful because you are unique in this world and this its one of the things which make you beautiful. 
5. You are beautiful because your inner self is beautiful made, and you know how to be and how to act and we can go on with these.
 And these are a few reasons why you are beautiful. These list can go on and on and on but because I don`t what to bore you. But I really beg you to let all your walls down and see u as beautiful as u are. As I wrote HERE you don`t have to fit into some standards or in some measurements you just have to be pleased with you and you`ll be happy. Until next time, keep this in mind.

With love, Alee

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Let your heart to heal

Hello my beautiful friend,

Listen this and read :-)

How are you today? As I was saying to some of you I will try to write as much as I can without becoming a boring one. 
I want to speak a little about relationships. I am sure that everyone of you (or at least the majority) had a boyfriend/girlfriend and also a broken heart. Well, today I want to share with you some broken heart thoughts or I don`t know some thoughts of mine.
In a previous post I wrote about what love is for me ( you can read it here Love ) and I know how wonderful is to love. But what we do when our heart is full of tears? When someone hurt us or repay our love with hate? 
This post won`t be about how you can heal your heart because trust me you just can`t. The only thing you can do is to wait. As the title say: let your heart to heal. Give it time to become a glad one again because otherwise you will cary with you a burden of pain and you`ll be unhappy. 
I am sure some of you will say: what you know about this? but trust me I am not speaking without being there myself. It`s true that I wasn`t hurt by my boyfriend cause I never had one but a lot of friends made my heart shutter and also one of my important person made some awful things which hurt a lot.
But let us be back on our subject. After you heart is shuttered in million of pieces it seems that the whole world is painted in black colors and nothing is the same, because a happy heart make us see the world diferently. It is interesting how our vision can change from good to bad in some seconds but we need a lot of time to recreate a happy one.
So, my dear! I know that you are in pain, I know what your heart is crying and is seeking for someone or something to glue the pieces back and you are feeling like all the humankind is against you. I was there too. Let all the tears to flow, after awhile they will stop. Let all your sobs to meet the world cause otherwise you`ll become ill. Suffer my dear one, is not bad to suffer and to show weakness because we all have our strong and our weak spots. And after all this are gone look around you.

Saturday, December 7, 2013

So sorry..

Hello my beautiful one!

It has been ages since I wrote something. Have no idea why I did it but I am feeling guilty about it. 

These days I saw some motivational movies
(you guys should watch them too: Unconditional and This is our time ) and I started asking myself where all my good intentions, all my love and all my friendship disappear? I am so ashamed of me because I let some other random things to put down my work and I let you down. I guess this is the true. I did the thing I like least, I let the people I love down. I am so sorry guys.  I hope you will stay with me from now on and TOGHETER we will change a little bit of the world.
So, tell me how all of you are? How life is going on? For me, since octomber it has been a lot of changing. First, I left from home and went to University. 
This was a huge step for me guys because I had to make a new way to live without my mother`s care. But now, after some mistakes and some criyng nights and so on I think I manage to have a good time here. If you want to know more about my Uni time and how I do things let me know. 

I guess this is for now, but I promise I will be back soon with a new story about how beautiful everyone is. 

With all my love, Allee

Tuesday, September 17, 2013


Hello my beautiful friend

You are staying in your comfy sofa and a lot of thoughts don`t let you alone. You want to stand up and start doing something but you just can`t move. Your head is full of questions which seems to remain unanswered and these thoughts just don`t want to disappear.  You wish that others can see you too, you wish that others will speak to you, you want others to care for you too but all you get is mean words and ugly stares. And in your head are a lot of why`s: Why they act this way? Why they don`t see me? Why can I be one of them? and why, why, why. And you want to cry but you can`t because this will only get you more unwanted words and they will say that you are weak. And their stares are so cruel and inside you know that you can be better but you just can`t do nothing because you just can`t move. You just want to stay in that comfy sofa and stop everything because all of this is to much. To much hate, to much ugliness, just to much. Only if someone will care but it seems that everyone is too busy to live their own life and you, you are all by yourself but you aren`t strong enough to do something. You just can`t!
Today, I want to change something for you. I know that I don`t have the power to actually make you see the world in different colors but I know that I have the power to be near you. I have all the means to help you because I can love, I can care and I can listen. And today, my dear I want to tell you that YOU are THE MOST WONDERFUL AND POWERFUL PERSON. No matter what others think, no matter what others say, nothing matters because YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. So, I am begging you to stand up from that comfy sofa and make a change in your life. Because YOU are the one who can chose if YOU let others bring you down or you don`t. 
At the beggining will be hard because it will be you against them but don`t stept back, keep fighting and keep going but don`t forget that the battles need to be won with your brain and not your fists or your sharp words. And if you need someone who will be there and will support you, then add this mail in your list: withoutwordsabout@gmail.com  and also keep this blog in your favourites list. I will try to be your friend as long as you`ll let me.
Don`t forget that you are beautiful and loved!

With all my love and support, Allee

Friday, September 13, 2013

Me& Myself

Hello my beautiful one!

It has been a long time since I`ve been writing something. I almost feel guilty about it. But I think I didn`t feel like writing because I was such in a bad mood. My life isn`t the prettiest one and some problems made me to close myself to the world, like being all alone in my room with some books and my laptop. I didn`t think I could encourage you with something so, I decide only to read and not write.
Well, I miss speaking with someone. So, now I`m back in the business. Kidding. Today I want to write about  me. Maybe this sound selfish but I want to let you know me a little. As I was saying in my first post I am a girl. Allessandra . Almost 20 years old. Soon I`ll start the university. I`ll be majoring in European politics. And in a few days I`ll start living on my own. I`m so excited about this because I am feeling that is time for me to become an independent woman. I love my mom. She is my best friend and all the best advices I ever had were from her. I have three siblings and I adore them. These days I was speaking with my brother and I was realizing that he grew up. A lot. This is my family. Maybe you are thinking now why I don`t speak about my father too, well this is a story for another time.
I live my life with this quote in mind: always see the trials as a blessing cause this way I can be grateful to God for everything and also I can see the way He changes me.
In the end I want to share it you some quotes on my own from my own heart. Hope will help you as it helped me when I wrote them.

“The most wonderful smile is the one which put a sparkle in a teary eye!”
“It so nice to see that from nowhere comes hope and it helps you to keep going no matter what!”
All the problems will decrease if you`ll treat them with a smile!”

“Being in love is something which change everything, not only you. When you love is like world reward you with all its wonders.

Monday, September 2, 2013

Trip and..

Hello my beautiful one!

I guess this is mostly a post for me. I was on a trip these days and I discovered two girls  in such a new way.  I was traveling for 12 hours or so with these two. I am really grateful for what they are and I`m thankful to God because I met them and also because,  maybe…only maybe I`ve helped  them with my advices.
 For 2 years I was their teacher at Sunday school and I`ve tried to make all the kids in my class to see some important things. If I succeeded I really don`t know.
As I was saying, these girls are really sweet and caring and they decide to follow the path God made for them. From the first moment I said yes to this trip I was feeling that I am sort of responsible for the way I act between them and for the way I am talking and everything, because teenagers are really easy to impress. I tried to be as close to them as I could but in the last days I decided that some things need to be said .  I maybe I said things to them too harshly, I'm not sure.
I think some of you are asking yourselves “why I read this?”. Please, bear with me until the end and I`ll try to be as clear as I can.  I said in one of my previous posts that I really am fond of people and really like to help them, but sometimes I am in a dilemma or something,  because sometimes I have to say some things which aren`t so…easy to say and some people can get them wrong and they can be affected by them.
I try every single time to say everything as  pleasabelt as it can be said but some stuff can be said only in a certain way. I guess my point is…in my attempts to help people sometimes I hurt them. And before they are hurt by what I say,  I am hurt too cause I really don`t want to upset anyone.
My question to all of you is ; Should I try not to hurt them,  but then make them suffer more in the future?  Or maybe upset them a little now and help them for the future? I hope some of you will send me a comment with your opinions.

With all my love, Allee

Tuesday, August 27, 2013


Hello my beautiful one!

As you can see in the title this post is from you,  beautiful and special girl. I am sure that I am not the only girl in the world who has some doubts about herself. Today I want to speak a little about that. Also, please excuse my english.
I am not a perfect girl. I will never be. And I don`t try to. I am  not too skinny or too fat. Sometimes I feel so insecure about me and myself. I am sure that this had happened to all of you. But we, girls, are so powerful and we can pass this times. God made us, like all of people, a masterpiece and we are beautiful. 
You, my dear one, are special. Don`t ever forget that! Don`t ever forget that you are alike the Master of this universe, our Almighty God and you are a princess.
So, when you think that you are ugly, or fat, or whatever it is in your brain which bring you insecurity think at this :  for Him you are a beloved one and somewhere in the world is someone who at the right time will love you the way you are.
Don`t get me wrong! I don`t say that we shouldn`t try to be our best all the time, I am only saying that we should know what our best is. Our best will never be the same as our best friend best or some model best or I don`t know what role model you have. Your best is only yours. Try to discover it and try to stay there.
YOU are different and special my dear one! You`ll ever be. Don`t try to change this! Don`t try to change what makes you beautiful and become soemthing you`ll never be.
Hope that you`ll understand this and you`ll try to be you because He made you this wonderful person and no one is like you.

With love, Allee

Friday, August 23, 2013

How can I?

Hello my beautiful one!

I am sure that every single one of you know what love is. Let me tell you my definition for love. For me love is the most pure feeling which bring us near to God and also transform us. Love is everything that is good in us and everything that the others give us only by saying Hi! or Thank you! And God create this wonderful feeling in us to be shared with every one. You can`t say love without thinking of others. You can`t feel this without having someone near you or at least having someone in your heart. 
I feel that I am such a fortunate to be create with this wonderful feeling. God cares for us so much and He wants us to experience this sweet and tender feeling.
Me...I love people. And this love makes me want to help, makes me want to have and be a friend, make me want to be there when someone is in need, this love that God put in me is the one which makes me the girl I am today in front of you, all the people who read this blog. I know that my work is only at its start but if anywhere in the world are people who love and want to be loved please let me know you and let us all share this beautiful feeling. 

Love is the one which makes us beautiful, love is the one which change us and makes us better, love is the one which teach us and also create the bridges beetwen one and another. Today, don`t be afraid to say I LOVE YOU! let the fear away cause love can conquer all. With love and by love we let God in our lifes and the world can change. 
Be the one who do it...only by love!
Don`t forget that you are special and beautiful!

With all my love, Allee

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

So true and lovely

The picture say it all!

Tears in my eyes...

Hello my beautiful one!

First of all I want to be so grateful to God for the windsom He gave me and for the love He has for me. I really have tears in my eyes now. Without Him I would be dead. But He said that I have a purpose and He let me live. Second of all, thank you to all of you who think that my idea is worth it. I am grateful for you guys and I`ll always be.
Now, let me speak a little bit to some of you. All of you are specials but this post is for the kids who had a hard time in their life because of the bullies, the loss of a parent, or everything bad they have in their life.
 I was a kid once. I still am, only an older one and I really know what live truly is. This post is for you guys. I want to tell you that you are specials and beautifuls and loved. The one that made you, God, loves you so much. And I really hope I can be a blessing for you. 
The trials of life are hard, the words can hurt so much sometimes and people are so mean this days ( if you have an answer at my question: why they are like this feel free to comment on my another post about this) and all of this make the life so painful. And when you are on your own, all of this become almost unbelievable hard. I want to say to you today that I am here. I am not someone important, I am not some fancy doctor with all the answer but I care for kids, I love to help and I know how to listen.You are not alone anymore. Firstly, you have God, even if you believe in Him or not, He made you and He cares for you so much and secondly you have me now, I am ready to listen and pray for you and also just be there for you in your pleasant times or your worst. Maybe I am not worthy of your attention, maybe you think that I have some hidden agenda...I can assure you that I only want to help. Hope that I will. 
Don`t forget that you are special, beautiful and loved!

With all my love, Allee

What we are...

Hello beautiful one!

In this post I will speak in more detail about what my idea is. First of all I create this blog as a platform for a comunity where every single of you who will write us will be also a author. Yeah, sound confusing right? This blog is about being friends and being near the ones of us who need a friend who listen all they have in mind. This idea come to me when I had a hard time in my life and I was dealing with that only with God`s help. It is the most precious thing but sometimes we need someone who can listen to us and physically tell us that He will sort all the things out. So this blog is all about this. If you have a problem in your life and you need someone to listen, pray with you or if you have a blessing and need someone to share that you have to do such a tiny little thing. Open a random post on this blog and leave a comment when you`ll say that you need to talk. As soon as possible (sometimes immediately) someone will answer you with the details and this is it...YOU GET A FRIEND. The talks will be private. I can`t tell you to write what you are dealing with on a public blog. You will write that in a mail who will be very very confidencial. I hope I make things right and you understand what this blog is. 
Don`t forget that you are special and beautiful!
With all my love, Allee

Sort of...

Hello my beautiful ones!

First I want to thank you for being with me yesterday. Really really THANK YOU! And now I want to say something to you guys. We all live in a beautiful world made by God only for us. We all are made by God. Is important for every single one of us to realise that we are His beings and that He has a plan for us. In the Bible God said that we are made after His looks. This means that everyone of us is made beautiful and special and that He put in every single one of us so much good thoughts. He doesn`t have ugly people, he doesn`t have stupid people neither fat ones or other things. We are all His beautiful creation and He loves us so much. So, guys let`s realise that! Let`s realise that the only thing that change us is our way of thinking and the decission we make by thinking in a certain way. We are not mean we are just insecure about something and we think that by saying rude things or by being violent we can become someone. This is so not true. We are not single, we just create walls around us by our own choices. He made us equals, we are the ones that want to change that. It`s true that every single one of us is different but we have such a strong connection named love and love conquer everything and love set us free if we want it in our lives.
Don`t forget that you are a loved one and special and beautiful!

With all my love, Allee

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Just me being me...

Hello my beautiful ones!

I am writing again a new post. I am really happy for people who spent a little of their time here on my blog. Maybe is the time to explain why I create this. I love God with all my being and I was praying for the power to love all the people as equals to me. I am so grateful that He is helping me to do that. Also I was so sad when I heard about what some people can do, things like being really cruel with anothers and so on. Yeah I know that in the world are wars and everything I don`t live in a soap bubble but my purpose is to let people know that I really want to be their friend and that`s all. No hidden agenda or anything. I really know how hard is it to pass the hard times alone and I thought and still think that I can be a friend even if a virtual one to the people who need someone to say a prayer to them or to be near them in their joy. So, guys, if you read this blog, if you under any circumstances come along this blog...please share this and also let me know about you and your dreams, your problems. I only do this because I care and because I don`t want to stay away if I can be a hand of help from someone.
Oh, and please excuse my poor english sometimes. I`m not a native english person.
Don`t forget that God made you and this means that you are special and beautiful!
With all my love, Allee

I am waiting for you

Hello there!

I just want to say to you that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL! Never forget this and don`t ever let anyone make you feel otherwise. I am not here to judge you or anything I just want to be that kind of friend who listen you when no one is there for you or that kind of friend who will enjoy your blessing with you. So, feel free to contact me. I let the e-mail here on this blog if you are to shy or you want to be private. What I want with this blog is to create another kind of internet connection between people so...if you make me the honour to click this link...please let a comment with your one and only view of the world and contact me to support my cause. 
Try to be a blessing for everyone and never to what you don`t want others to do to you!

With all my love, Allee

Why people are so mean?

Hello my beautifuls and special ones!

As you can see the I want to put a big question and this is: why people are so mean? I live in a city where Thank God the kids aren`t bullied and violence isn`t so intense but I heard that in the world kids are put in so much danger and everything. So, the stories I heard about make me wonder and ask myself why people are so mean to each other? Why they bully each other? Why someone think so low about another one? Can anyone answer at these questions? If you have an answer please feel free to comment about your opinion. I will read and also share my thoughts. I`m not some fancy woman with much life knowledge but I really care about people and I want, with and only with God help be a bless in the ones I meet. I look forward to your answers and until then I will make a research and maybe I`ll post something new about this questions.
With all my love, Allee

How this works...

Hello again!
I was thinking about this and I realise that some of you maybe are shy or something so I create special for you an e-mail where you can write: withoutwordsabout@gmail.com. I am expecting your mails and everything and please guys...this blog is for you. Let me think in comments what you want to read here and I`ll do my best to fulfill your wishes.

With love, Alllee

How this works...

The blog is pretty new. So I explain some things for all of you. All you have to do is to write a comment about what you feel or about what are you in searching for. I will read that comment and I`ll try all my best to listen and be there for you. If you`ll be agree your comment will become a post in this blog and you will be a co author. I hope that you`ll like this idea.
With love, Allee

About us...

Hello my beautiful ones!

My name is Allessandra and I create this new blog because I had in mind for a very long time an idea. An idea about a place where every single one of you who has a hard time in their life ( they are bullied, they are in a loss of someone, they are heart broken or anything like this) can speak about their problems without being judged and just being listened to. I really hope that every single one of you who are out there will find about this blog and you will find what you need here. 
Don`t forget every single person is made by God and that means that he/she is beautiful and special. So are you!

                                                                                              with all my love, Allee